<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><!-- generator=Zoho Sites --><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><atom:link href="https://www.heroicvoice.com/blogs/author/sean-adams/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><title>Heroic Voice - Blog by Sean Adams</title><description>Heroic Voice - Blog by Sean Adams</description><link>https://www.heroicvoice.com/blogs/author/sean-adams</link><lastBuildDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2026 12:58:53 -0700</lastBuildDate><generator>http://zoho.com/sites/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[The key to Successful Communication is listening.]]></title><link>https://www.heroicvoice.com/blogs/post/the-key-to-successful-communication-is-listening.</link><description><![CDATA[One of the most important things we need to learn when working on our communication skills is that effective communication is not just about how well ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_HuGk7efnRmek57UlVpJAug" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"> [data-element-id="elm_HuGk7efnRmek57UlVpJAug"].zpsection{ border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_VFlWHr2xSIaNmljNbAP9rw" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items-center zpjustify-content-center " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"> [data-element-id="elm_VFlWHr2xSIaNmljNbAP9rw"].zprow{ border-radius:1px; } </style><div data-element-id="elm_cxEBO9mqRy6H_gKsp-MUDg" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"> [data-element-id="elm_cxEBO9mqRy6H_gKsp-MUDg"].zpelem-col{ border-radius:1px; } </style><div data-element-id="elm_5m74JmR4QPyI3UCF4qkLdw" data-element-type="heading" class="zpelement zpelem-heading "><style> [data-element-id="elm_5m74JmR4QPyI3UCF4qkLdw"].zpelem-heading { border-radius:1px; } </style><h1
 class="zpheading zpheading-align-center " data-editor="true"><p><span style="font-size:36px;"><span style="color:inherit;">The key to </span>Successful<span style="color:inherit;">&nbsp;Communication is listening.</span></span></p></h1></div>
<div data-element-id="elm_PLjGK6N4JpIkz2e_ruaw4Q" data-element-type="image" class="zpelement zpelem-image "><style> @media (min-width: 992px) { [data-element-id="elm_PLjGK6N4JpIkz2e_ruaw4Q"] .zpimage-container figure img { width: 1110px ; height: 580.90px ; } } @media (max-width: 991px) and (min-width: 768px) { [data-element-id="elm_PLjGK6N4JpIkz2e_ruaw4Q"] .zpimage-container figure img { width:723px ; height:378.37px ; } } @media (max-width: 767px) { [data-element-id="elm_PLjGK6N4JpIkz2e_ruaw4Q"] .zpimage-container figure img { width:415px ; height:217.18px ; } } [data-element-id="elm_PLjGK6N4JpIkz2e_ruaw4Q"].zpelem-image { border-radius:1px; } </style><div data-caption-color="" data-size-tablet="" data-size-mobile="" data-align="center" data-tablet-image-separate="" data-mobile-image-separate="" class="zpimage-container zpimage-align-center zpimage-size-fit zpimage-tablet-fallback-fit zpimage-mobile-fallback-fit hb-lightbox " data-lightbox-options="
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</div><div data-element-id="elm_OqYUj2e4Q128tJj_qoE76A" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_OqYUj2e4Q128tJj_qoE76A"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">One of the most important things we need to learn when working on our communication skills is that effective communication is not just about how well we say what we want to say, but it is even more important for us to focus on how well we are connecting with our audience and our needs.&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">Too often when working on one's communication skills people focus on the message and how well they can deliver it. Although this is important it is also only 1/3 of effective communication. The other 2/3 of effective communication has to do with your audience.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;</span><span style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="text-align:justify;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">We train our clients here at Heroic Voice Academy we teach everyone a simple concept called the Connection Triangle™. By helping our clients understand that communication only truly happens when you have a complete Connection Triangle they learn that they need to focus on their audience more than just on their message.</span></p><p></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">And how does one go about learning to focus on their audience? By learning to listen; listen to what they audience wants to know, listen for what questions the audience wants to have answered, listen to what concerns the audience has that brought them to that meeting or event, and listen to what the audience thinks in in it for them, their WIFM.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">Delivering your message well is important, but delivering your message in a way that connects with the audience and connects the audience to the message means you truly have achieved communication.</span></span><br></p></div>
</div><div data-element-id="elm__l61TO35QhdBIjBar6sRNg" data-element-type="imagetext" class="zpelement zpelem-imagetext "><style> @media (min-width: 992px) { [data-element-id="elm__l61TO35QhdBIjBar6sRNg"] .zpimagetext-container figure img { width: 800px !important ; height: 800px !important ; } } @media (max-width: 991px) and (min-width: 768px) { [data-element-id="elm__l61TO35QhdBIjBar6sRNg"] .zpimagetext-container figure img { width:800px ; height:800px ; } } @media (max-width: 767px) { [data-element-id="elm__l61TO35QhdBIjBar6sRNg"] .zpimagetext-container figure img { width:800px ; height:800px ; } } [data-element-id="elm__l61TO35QhdBIjBar6sRNg"].zpelem-imagetext{ border-radius:1px; } </style><div data-size-tablet="" data-size-mobile="" data-align="left" data-tablet-image-separate="" data-mobile-image-separate="" class="zpimagetext-container zpimage-with-text-container zpimage-align-left zpimage-size-original zpimage-tablet-fallback-original zpimage-mobile-fallback-original hb-lightbox " data-lightbox-options="
            type:fullscreen,
            theme:dark"><figure role="none" class="zpimage-data-ref"><span class="zpimage-anchor" role="link" tabindex="0" aria-label="Open Lightbox" style="cursor:pointer;"><picture><img class="zpimage zpimage-style-none zpimage-space-none " src="/Connection%20Triangle%20%E2%84%A2.png" width="800" height="800" loading="lazy" size="original" data-lightbox="true" style="undefinedheight:174px !important;width:174px !important;"/></picture></span></figure><div class="zpimage-text zpimage-text-align-left " data-editor="true"><p><span style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:16px;"><br></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:16px;color:inherit;">We train our clients here at Heroic Voice Academy we teach everyone a simple concept called the Connection Triangle™. By helping our clients understand that communication only truly happens when you have a complete Connection Triangle they learn that they need to focus on their audience more than just on their message.</span><br></p></div>
</div></div><div data-element-id="elm_0VyvsL-o9KEWgV2viYv3Uw" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style> [data-element-id="elm_0VyvsL-o9KEWgV2viYv3Uw"].zpelem-text { border-radius:1px; } </style><div class="zptext zptext-align-left " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">And how does one go about learning to focus on their audience? By learning to listen: listen to what they audience wants to know, listen for what questions the audience wants to have answered, listen to what concerns the audience has that brought them to that meeting or event, and listen to what the audience thinks in in it for them, their WIFM.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:inherit;"><span style="font-size:12pt;">Delivering your message well is important, but delivering your message in a way that connects with the audience and connects the audience to the message means you truly have achieved communication.</span></span><br></p></div>
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